Someone once said “marriage is about love; divorce is about money." That is certainly a big part of the picture.
When relationships are breaking down, the old patterns are repeated, especially when it comes to money.
Decision-making processes that were difficult when the marriage was working, especially over money, quickly get tagged as “disputes” when separation happens.
But if the couple can realize that the term "dispute" does not have to characterize their current predicament, they can be guided through a review of ideas and options with the help of trusted advisers.
There are new approaches to separation and divorce that make sure that everyone has all the available information they require and the time they need to understand it before any decisions are made. You can change the old habits, if you have the help you need.
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