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Separation and Money Matters

Someone once said “marriage is about love; divorce is about money." That is certainly a big part of the picture.

 When relationships are breaking down, the old patterns are repeated, especially when it comes to money.

 Decision-making processes that were difficult when the marriage was working, especially over money, quickly get tagged as “disputes” when separation happens.

But if the couple can realize that the term "dispute" does not have to characterize their current predicament, they can be guided through a review of ideas and options with the help of trusted advisers.

 There are new approaches to separation and divorce that make sure that everyone has all the available information they require and the time they need to understand it before any decisions are made.   You can change the old habits, if you have the help you need.

 

"If marriage means you fell in love, does divorce mean you climbed out?" Unknown

Separation and Divorce in a Bad Economy

The economic downturn seems to have an unexpected impact on divorce; as the economy dips, divorces decrease. And it may be that the financial expense of divorce is a factor in divorce rates.  Some recent studies show that marriages are lasting longer, and it does match up with the performance in the economy.

If you are trying to decide on separation and divorce, remember that the decision to separate is a process, not an event. In an economic downturn you can spend the time understanding what divorce will mean for you.  Have a good look at your lifestyle, your expenses and the cost of carrying your debt.  Work out a budget for yourself and your family in your current financial situation. 

When the time is right to take the first steps to divorce, you will be ahead of the game.

"Never cut what you can untie."

Joseph Joubert